Monday, January 26, 2009

Expressions are forceful.. You cannot hold them...



A white rose with its elegant presence, delicate petals and a pleasing colour reminds you .....
..... that the world around is still so wonderful,
..... that the people are so divine,

and you realise the importance of all the relationships you have in this beautiful world !!!

A yellow rose presenting a sweet image and holding in itself an eye absorbing color imbibes in you .....

..... a sense of belonging,
..... a spirit of joy and security,

that you wish you could take along the whole world with you !!!


A pink rose which is as fascinating in itself forces you to loose hold of yourself to believe .......

..... that you have a fortune,
..... that a fragrant ambience is everlasting,

and you imagine how kind the nature is to you !!!



A red rose with its distinct look and a whole lot of red smily petals do not stop you from realising .........

..... the completeness in yourself,
..... the sense of bliss with mother nature,

and you start to crave for similar kinds of relationships .....



Relationships which are as cute and demanding ;
Relationships which are as caring and understanding ;
Relationships which are as worthy as to crave for ....!!

I've learnt...

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I've learnt...
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first,the passion fades and there had better besomething else to take its place.

I've learnt...
that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.


I've learnt...
that learning to forgive takes practice.


I've learnt...
that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.


I've learnt...
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.


I've learnt...
that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.


I've learnt...
that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.


I've learnt...
that sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me
the right to be cruel.


I've learnt...
that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.


I've learnt...
that just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to doesn't mean
they don't love you with all they have.


I've learnt...
that maturity has more to do with
what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.


I've learnt...
that you should never tell a child
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating, and
what a tragedy it would if they believed it.


I've learnt...
that your family won't always
be there for you. It may seem funny,
but people you aren't related to
can take care of you and love you
and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren't biological.


I've learnt...
that no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you
every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.


I've learnt...
that it isn't always enough
to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn
to forgive yourself.


I've learnt...
that no matter how bad
your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.


I've learnt...
that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.


I've learnt...
that sometimes when my friends fight,
I'm forced to choose sides
even when I don't want to.


I've learnt...
that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean they do.


I've learnt...
that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.


I've learnt...
that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.


I've learnt...
that you shouldn't be so
eager to find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.


I've learnt...
that two people can look
at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.


I've learnt...
that no matter how you try to protect
your children, they will eventually get hurt
and you will hurt in the process.


I've learnt...
that there are many ways of falling
and staying in love.


I've learnt...
that no matter the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves
get farther in life.


I've learnt...
that no matter how many friends you have,
if you are their pillar you will feel lonely
and lost at the times you need them most.


I've learnt...
that your life can be changed
in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.


I've learnt...
that even when you think
you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.


I've learnt...
that writing, as well as talking,
can ease emotional pains.


I've learnt...
that the paradigm we live in
is not all that is offered to us.


I've learnt...
that credentials on the wall
do not make you a decent human being.


I've learnt...
that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.


I've learnt...
that although the word "love"
can have many different meanings,
it loses value when overly used.


I've learnt...
that it's hard to determine
where to draw the line
between being nice and
not hurting people's feelings
and standing up for what you believe.
I've learnt...
that no matter how thin you slice it,

there are always two sides.


I've learnt...
that it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.


I've learnt...
that it's a lot easier
to react than it is to think.


I've learnt...
that you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learnt...
that you can keep going
long after you think you can't.

I've learnt...
that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

I've learnt...
that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I've learnt...
that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.


I've learnt...
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.


I've learnt...
that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learnt
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learnt...
that you shouldn't compare
yourself to the best others can do.
but to the best you can do.


I've learnt
that it's not what happens to people that's important.
It's what they do about it.

I've learnt...
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
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I've learnt...
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.

Love someone

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel, and then regret it.

2. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

3. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person.

4. A sad thing in life is, you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be, and you just have to let go.

5. When the door of happiness closes, another opens. But often at times we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

6. The best kind of friend is the kind whom you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had.

7. It is true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we do not know what we have been missing until it arrives.

8. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Do not expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it does not, be content that it grew in yours.

9. There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from; but do not be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.

10. Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still feel you can go on. Never say you do not love a person anymore if you cannot let go.

11. Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still love although they have been hurt before.

12. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone. But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

13. Do not go for looks; they can deceive. Do not go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile.

14. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! Hope you dream of that special someone.

15. Dream what you want to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and only one chance to do all the things you want to do.

16. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

17. Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person, too.

18. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. A loving word may heal and bless.

19. The beginning of love is to let those we love just be themselves and not twist them with our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

20. The happiest of people do not necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

21. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried; for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

22. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

23. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

24. When you were born, you were crying, and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling, and everyone around you is crying.

" A person who asks love of others, but does not himself give it, cannot be loved. Always be the first to give love and it shall be given to you. As long as you do not give your heart first, you will be far from love. "
May your heart be as pure as crystal,
Your intellect as luminous as the sun,
Your soul, as vast as the Universe,
and you Spirit, as powerful as, and united with God.

- Peter Deunov